Ya Big Baby

Ya Big Baby

Ya Big Baby

There is a new trend I’ve been noticing in men lately that they are more whiny than even my most annoying of “friends”. I have been hearing this when talking to friends and even overheard strangers lately just complain and complain at the lack of masculinity  guys are displaying  as of late.  I know not everyone wants a neanderthal but come on guys put on your big girl panties and get to gettin!!
Men seem to have more issues then ever before. Less concerned with having to actually deal with their issues or even progress but I think because they are perhaps more in touch with their feelings and expressing them I think maybe they have over looked the most important part which is taking care of the problem. I see the awareness, even the over awareness of issues but not actually moving forward and progressing from the issue. I am almost driven nuts by this.
We all have issues. I am not perfect, I cannot fix every issue I have but I do my best. I see these men accessing their issues which is nice but I’m over this sappy woe as me attitude. Are we as women now supposed to coddle you men even more? Are we supposed to fix your problems now too besides the never ending list of things we take care of and our own issues that we are constantly working on. I am a doer. I like to get things done.  If I want something I go get it.  If something isn’t right I fix it.  I refuse to let someone do the work for me especially if it is an internal thing.
Do I slack at times on my goals or changes or want to give up? 100%! I am a constant work in progress though. I feel everyone always should be. Life changes and it changes you. There is no reason to make anyone else but yourself figure out how to solve your internal turmoil. I have been in places where I thought I may never recover. I have wanted to give up and become the terrible person that sleeps inside all of us but most of us can manage to keep at bay.
The older I get (I hate to even put that in writing) the less tolerance I have for anyone who lets their problems own them instead of the other way around. What is the point of wanting to stay effected? Why let someone you care for take your issues and make them theirs?  Life throws enough curve balls our way with out the added stress of owning another persons.  I would just like to say to all of the “men” out there “MAN UP! IF WE WANTED TO DATE A SAPPY WHINER WE WOULD DATE OURSELVES DURING SHARK WEEK!”  Now gentlemen please return to your regularly schedule

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